It wasn’t until I declared my worth to myself that my entire life opened up. I had to declare that I would stop settling for less and start setting the standard for more. I had to learn how to be BELIEVE and deeply know that I was worthy of what I truly wanted.
It wasn’t until I declared to myself that I was NO LONGER GOING TO LIMIT MYSELF.
I released the victim mindset that kept telling me I couldn’t.
I tapped into my worth and from there came my power
From there, my connection to myself deepened.
My spirituality expanded.
My capacity to manifest enlivened
I’ve rid myself of most toxins.
I’m sober.
I’ve learned emotional regulation,
I’ve learned to let go of unavailable men,
I’ve learned how to express my true vulnerability.
I’ve found communities that feel like home.
I’ve discovered radical self-love that says I will never settle for anything less than the best.
And I cultivate practices that open the energetics to invite that in.
And, I receive with ease.
Maybe you still say yes to things you don’t want to do (low self-priority).
Maybe you end up resenting others because you don’t get as much as you give (No boundaries).
Maybe you still say “Yes!” to people who drain you and don’t give back what they get (low self-worth; high need for other’s approval).
Maybe you still drink too much to soothe anxiety and stress (unhealed trauma).
Maybe you either don’t eat enough or eat too much (efforts to self-soothe and control).
Maybe you obsess and worry relentlessly (lack of self-trust).
Maybe you’re about to break if you don’t figure out what the hell is holding you back (awareness of living mis-aligned with values).
Maybe you’re still blocked, and you have no idea why or how to get out from under it (readiness for truth).
I had to learn how to get out of my own way.
To step into my TRUE potential.
And shed everything that no longer served me.
I reached a point where I had to prioritize loving myself so fiercely that I’d be unrelenting in my willingness to stop settling for less than what I wanted and am worth.
And start setting the standard for nothing but the best to come into my life.
I had to challenge myself to say YES to myself, and NOPE! to everything that does not serve me.
There are so many conditions that keep us from our sense of what we truly deserve. Self-worth and self-respect are inextricably linked to how willing we are to set boundaries in our relationship to ourselves and others.
We have to BELIEVE we’re worthy of more.
If we were conditioned during our early formative years to believe that our worth comes from how much we can sacrifice ourselves to serve others, then our subconscious program or core belief may be “I don’t deserve to have my needs met” or “I am only valuable to the extent that I can give to others.”
This may result in relationship that feels one-sided, and a version of you that feels overwhelmed, depleted, and resentful.
When we can notice the unhelpful ways in which we’re operating, and take the time to challenge the beliefs we carry about how worthy we are of what we want, we empower ourselves to choose differently. We recognize that our inherent birthright is to receive reciprocity, safety, attention, care, and abundance.
You set the standard. What shows up in your life stems from what you project you’re worthy of.
YOU set the bar.
Everything that’s showing up in your life is a reflection of your own energetic influence.
Be sure, it’s not your fault and you’re not alone in struggling to call in all that you most want BUT it IS your divine responsibility to clear yourself of old patterns and programs that keep you limited.
A few How-To’s:
1. REFLECT! Take time to process what’s happening inside of you. Notice what feelings come up, what stories you’re telling yourself that you’re believing as truth, and where you first learned these (hint: think waaayyyyy back)
2. BREATHE! You HAVE to be centered to tap into truth. Divine intervention occurs at a level of consciousness that can only be accessed when the chitter chatter settles to open the space. Breathe is a holy anchor and refuge of peace. It’s always accessible to you! Use it. It’s your gift and friend.
3. Explore EVERY SINGLE shadow lurking within your psyche that tells you you are not worth what you want. Be courageous enough to discover the origins of this voice, and nurture with tenderness the fear, shame, and any other emotion that you’ve avoided, but that has only grown in toxicity. This is your chance to embrace your full, whole self. Perfect in its authentic expression. Worthy innately, your divine birthright.
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